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What’s the best approach for your visitation plan?

One of the most important aspects of your divorce will be deciding what happens with your kids. You know that the terms of your final order will affect your kids for years to come, and this is why it is important to have a custody and visitation plan that allows for stability and security. When you are creating a parenting plan, it is in your interests to think about the kids’ needs above all else. 

Crafting a parenting plan with a soon-to-be-ex-spouse is complex and emotionally challenging. It’s not easy to set your own feelings to the side, but the reality is that your temporary feelings probably do not represent what is truly best long term. This is one reason why it’s helpful to have the guidance and support of an experienced Texas attorney as you think through these issues and pursue a reasonable final order.

Things to think about

Creating a parenting plan means putting the needs of your kids first. There are certain things you will want to keep in mind as you work with the other parent on a plan that makes sense. Some important considerations include:

  • How will your kids feel about your choices? It is important to put yourself in your kids’ shoes as you make important decisions about their futures. How will they feel about the choices you’ve made?
  • Will it work logistically? Any parenting plan will have to work well logistically. Think about your work schedules and daily demands before you make any decisions that will affect how your kids spend their time.
  • Should you ask your kids? If your kids are old enough, it may be prudent to discuss your thoughts with your kids. They may surprise you with their insight and their opinions regarding their post-divorce future.
  • What’s your goal? If your motivation is to get revenge on your former spouse, make everything convenient for you or win some kind of battle, you are focusing on the wrong things. 

A legal ally can help you keep your focus on the things that really matter. He or she can also help you pursue terms that allow you to protect your parental rights while also shielding your children from as much emotional trauma and upheaval as possible. When you have knowledgeable guidance and a focus on what’s best for your kids, you will be more likely to reach terms that will benefit your family for years to come.

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