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Signs your spouse may try to leave the country with your children

On Behalf of | Jul 15, 2024 | Child Custody

It’s a parent’s worst nightmare: their ex-spouse abducts their children and flees to another country. Attempting to resolve child custody issues across international borders presents its own unique set of challenges.

Prevention is critical in a situation like this, so it’s imperative that you recognize the signs that the other parent is planning to abduct your children.

What to look out for 

1. Your ex-spouse suddenly becomes secretive or evasive when you communicate. There is reduced transparency about their plans or whereabouts and they avoid discussions regarding travel intentions.

2. There are several unusual financial behaviors, such as selling off personal items, liquidating accounts or opening new bank accounts or credit lines.

3. Your ex-spouse is renewing passports or applying for new travel documents for themselves or the children.

4. There are attempts to modify custody arrangements, seek sole custody or try to limit your access to your children.

5. They exhibit significant changes in behavior or routines, including withdrawing from social activities or community involvement. They have increased stress or anxiety without clear reasons.

6. Your ex-spouse is giving you inconsistent or misleading information about their plans. They refuse to share contact information or itineraries for planned trips and make last-minute travel plans with little or no notice.

If you suspect that your ex-spouse is planning to flee the country with your children, taking immediate and proactive measures is essential. Consider implementing legal safeguards, such as court orders restricting international travel or placing alerts on your children’s passports.

In the event your ex-spouse does make it out of the country with your children, the Hague Convention provides the legal framework to ensure their immediate return to their home country. Working with someone well-versed in international custody issues is crucial in protecting your children and their rights.