Determining child custody in Texas can be difficult under the best circumstances, and experienced child custody lawyers can help navigate this complex territory. When one of the parents has an illness or substance abuse problem, the situation becomes even more challenging. If you are involved in a high-conflict custody battle, be sure your lawyer has experience with your type of case.
Laura Dale & Associates, provides expert child custody representation from two family law board certified attorneys. In addition, Houston attorney Laura Dale has a master’s degree in psychophysiology and a doctorate in neuroscience, as well as clinical experience with mentally ill patients. She understands mental illness and substance abuse, and the effect they have on family law issues. She works with numerous clients in these situations and often receives referrals from hospitals. In addition, she handles international child custody cases.
To talk with a child custody attorney, please call 713-574-7952 or contact us via email. We are skilled in upholding:
- The rights of mothers
- The rights of fathers
- The rights of grandparents
We are also experienced in issues related to:
- Terminating parents’ rights, such as in adoption cases
- Sole custody vs. shared custody issues
- Modifying custody orders when circumstances change
- Interstate custody enforcement and registration
- Custody cases involving expats and international matters
The Mechanics Of Child Custody In Texas
All parents have rights and obligations concerning their children. They’re expected to financially support their minor children and provide them with a safe, stable living environment. Possession of and access to (also known as “custody and visitation”) is also their right, as is the ability to make major decisions on a child’s behalf about things such as their education, religious instruction and medical care.
When parents are no longer together, a parenting plan can help formally establish the extent of each parent’s obligations and rights, including how custody and visitation will work. In general, parents are free to establish any custody and visitation plan they want – so long as they agree. Most parents prefer to negotiate their parenting plans without court intervention since that allows for the most flexible, customized agreements. Once a judge approves a parenting plan, it becomes enforceable – just like any other court order.
When parents cannot agree on how legal or physical custody should work, the court can step in and make the decisions for them. Those decisions are always based on what is in the best interests of the child or children involved. While there are numerous factors that the court may consider, some of the most critical include:
- The desires of the child: Once a child is 12 years of age or older, they can express their preferences about custody to the court and ask for those preferences to be considered.
- The ability of each parent to meet their child’s physical and emotional needs: This can include everything from the stability of the home a parent can provide to the complexity of their work schedule.
- The safety of the child in each parent’s care: Evidence of domestic violence, abuse or neglect in a parent’s household can significantly affect the judge’s decision, which can be provided through hospital records, criminal histories, witness statements and expert evaluations.
Because custody and visitation orders are enforceable, a parent who is being denied their rights can turn to the court for relief. Depending on the situation, the court can order make-up parenting time or hold a noncompliant parent in contempt of court. They can also punish a noncompliant parent with the reduction or loss of their custody rights.
Making Sense Of Child Custody In Texas: Joint Vs. Sole Custody
When parents separate or divorce, determining who will raise the children often becomes the most high-conflict aspect of legal proceedings. Understanding the differences between joint and sole custody helps parents make informed decisions during this challenging time.
Texas family law uses specific language that differs from what you might hear in everyday conversation or even in other states. When parents or media discuss “joint custody” or “sole custody,” Texas courts translate these concepts into “joint managing conservatorship” or “sole managing conservatorship.” This distinction matters because it shapes how courts make decisions about your family.
Joint Custody In Texas
Officially called “joint managing conservatorship (JMC)” in Texas, this arrangement means both parents share the rights and duties of raising their children after separation or divorce. JMC is the default arrangement that courts prefer and presume to be in the child’s best interest in most situations. Under this arrangement, both parents share the rights and responsibilities of raising their children, making major decisions together about education, health care and religious upbringing.
Sole Custody In Texas
In Texas, courts rarely grant sole custody compared to shared parenting arrangements. This type of custody, also known as “sole managing conservatorship,” puts all decision-making power in the hands of just one parent. A judge will order SMC only when serious problems exist, such as family violence, drug or alcohol abuse or parents who fight so badly they cannot work together. The parent with sole custody makes all important choices about school, medical care and other big issues without needing approval from the other parent. The other parent usually still gets visitation time with the child unless these visits would be dangerous.
What Is Best For The Child?
Courts base every child custody decision on the child’s best interest. We guide our clients through each factor the court will consider:
- Parental capabilities: Judges assess each parent’s ability to meet the child’s emotional, medical and daily needs.
- Child’s physical and emotional needs: The court examines how each parent supports the child’s health, stability and growth.
- Parent-child relationship: A strong bond between the child and a parent may influence placement and visitation rights.
- Home environment stability: Courts prioritize the parent who can offer a safe, secure and consistent home life.
- Parental fitness: Any evidence of neglect, abuse, addiction or criminal history can heavily affect custody decisions.
We help clients build strong parenting plans and present clear evidence supporting the child’s well-being.
Child Custody Schedules For Texas Families
Before proposing a parenting schedule to your co-parent or presenting it to the judge, taking a look at common custody schedules can provide valuable ideas and inspiration. By exploring different options, you can determine what arrangement will allow you to spend quality time with your child and ensure their needs are met.
Some common child custody schedules in Texas include:
- Standard possession order: This arrangement typically allows the noncustodial parent to have possession of the child on weekends, Thursdays and for extended periods during summer vacation.
- 50/50 schedule: Typically established in a joint custody, this schedule involves the children spending one week with each parent and switching homes weekly. This works well for parents who live close to each other and can maintain consistent communication.
- 2-2-3 schedule: The child’s time is divided between both parents in a repeating pattern. For example, the child might spend two days with Parent A, followed by two days with Parent B and then three days with Parent A again. The following week, this schedule is reversed.
- 2-2-5-5 schedule: In a two-week cycle, Parent A has the children for 2 days, then Parent B for 2 days, followed by Parent A for 5 days and finally Parent B for 5 days. This provides longer stretches of time with each parent while still maintaining equal parenting time.
Creating a workable custody schedule helps children maintain loving bonds with both parents and supports their emotional health. Your children deserve stability during this challenging time.
Critical Updates To Texas Child Custody Law
Texas family law has recently undergone significant revisions. These new rules affect who can file a custody suit (standing) and how courts decide key custody issues such as enforcement, decision-making and safety. Any parent involved in a custody case must know about these changes.
Filing Suit: Higher Burden For Nonparents
New laws create a tougher standard for nonparents trying to get custody. The group of relatives who can file a post-termination suit got bigger, but they must act within 90 days of the court’s order. Nonparents also must now prove the child faces a significant impairment to health or development to gain standing. Meeting this high standard is hard, especially with mental health or substance abuse issues. Laura Dale & Associates develops the required evidence. Attorney Dale’s clinical background supports your case, and we file your petition on time to meet strict deadlines.
Decision-Making: Exclusive School Choice Authority
Custody orders now let courts make critical, exclusive decisions. Courts can now give one parent the sole right to make school enrollment decisions and use school vouchers. This removes what was often a shared decision. We strongly advocate for you to hold this key decision-making power, building a case focused on the child’s long-term well-being.
Parental Decisions: Gender-Affirming Care
The law now makes the court’s view on parental decisions about gender identity clear. A parent does not commit abuse in a custody case simply by choosing not to provide gender-affirming care or not to use a child’s preferred pronouns. This change impacts how courts judge parental choices. We offer guidance to help your parental decisions follow the new legal standard.
Enforcement And Safety: Visitation “Three Strikes” Rule
The law has stricter rules for parental access and child safety. A new “Three Strikes” rule says a parent found in contempt three times for blocking court-ordered visitation can lose custody. Courts must combine protective orders involving family violence with any pending custody case. Our long experience with high-conflict cases makes us vital for handling actions under this high-stakes rule and ensuring the court fully reviews all safety evidence.
Possession, Therapy And DFPS Cases
Possession orders now reflect a push for more parental involvement; courts may now grant extra parenting time to noncustodial parents. Separately, new laws on DFPS (Child Protective Services) cases focus on parental reunification, and the law bans a controversial, intensive therapy used in alienation cases. We advise clients on the right legal and clinical tactics in high-conflict, DFPS and possession issues, securing a focused, evidence-based outcome that protects your child.
The changing nature of Texas custody law means you need a firm that knows every new law and provides the detailed, clinical insight necessary to successfully fight complex issues.
Resolving High-Conflict Custody Cases
In any high-conflict case, at least one party cannot compromise. In some cases, this is because one parent has a substance abuse problem or a disorder such as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) or bipolar disorder. Attorney Dale can recognize the illness and address it. When a client is ill, she helps to get the client stabilized and/or in recovery to get the support he or she needs from family members, therapists or a substance abuse program. When the opposing parent is ill, she explains the illness to her client and discusses the consequences for the children.
Keeping the children safe is critical in these situations. We help clients find support for the present and future. We draft orders to address custody and visitation if the other parent’s condition worsens. By having orders in place, clients do not have to go back to court if the other parent relapses or becomes sicker.
Moving Out Of State With A Child
Texas courts care deeply about keeping both parents involved in a child’s life, which makes them very careful about allowing moves that put distance between a child and one parent. If you need to move with your child, you must show the court how this change helps your child thrive – not just how it helps your own situation.
Whether you hope to relocate with your child or you want to prevent your co-parent from moving away, you need a skilled family law attorney to guide you through each step of the legal process. They can help you protect your relationship with your child during these challenging circumstances.
Why You Need A Child Custody Attorney When Relocating
Moving to a new state or an unfamiliar area during a custody dispute adds a layer of complexity. Our firm works with parents facing relocation challenges and helps them address every legal detail. Below are reasons why working with an experienced child custody attorney is essential:
- Jurisdictional clarity: Every state follows its own rules on who has the authority to hear a custody case. We help determine whether your new state or the previous one has proper jurisdiction under laws such as the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA).
- Registering out-of-state orders: If a custody order was issued in a different state, we assist with registering it locally, helping ensure it is enforceable and recognized by the new court system.
- Complying with local laws: Parenting plans, visitation rules and modification procedures vary by state. We guide clients through local legal requirements so that all actions are valid and in the child’s best interest.
- Modifying custody agreements: When relocation affects the parenting plan, we assist with filing modifications that reflect the new circumstances while protecting the child’s routine and stability.
Relocation is a legal shift that can impact custody for years to come. Our team helps ensure your rights and your child’s future are protected every step of the way.
Modifying Custody Orders
In Texas, modifying a child custody order requires proving that a material and substantial change in circumstances has occurred since the last court order. Additionally, you must wait at least one year after a final custody order is signed, unless the child is at risk.
Here is what qualifies as a material and substantial change under Texas law.
- Relocation: One parent moves outside geographic restrictions, disrupting the current custody schedule
- Child endangerment: Evidence of abuse, neglect, substance abuse or unsafe living conditions
- Parental alienation: One parent attempts to turn a child against the other parent
- Lifestyle changes: Remarriage or new partners
- Child’s preference: Children aged 12 or older may express a preference
- Changes in work schedule: Significant shifts in employment or availability
- Changes in the child’s education or medical needs: Evolving needs requiring a different custody arrangement
Our lawyers can help build a compelling legal argument to prove these changes.
What Is The Process Of Filing For The Custody Modification In Texas
When your child’s future is at stake, navigating complex Texas custody laws can feel overwhelming. Our firm can stand with you through every step below:
- File a petition: Our attorneys can help you prepare and file a Suit for Modification in the same court that issued your original custody order.
- Serve the other parent: You must notify the other parent so they can respond whether they agree or contest the changes.
- Mediation: Texas courts often require mediation to attempt resolution of custody modification disputes.
- Final hearing: If no agreement is reached, attorney Dale can present your case before a judge.
When facing a custody battle, acting quickly with experienced legal counsel is critical. At our firm, we can help protect your rights and guide you in the following ways:
- Immediate legal protection: We can ensure all deadlines are met, such as filing an Answer within 20 days if you have been served.
- Building your “best interest” case: We can help you demonstrate your active involvement in daily parenting responsibilities.
- Gathering strong evidence: We can help you document critical details, including school and medical records.
- Avoiding costly mistakes: Our attorneys can help you avoid common pitfalls that can damage your case.
We will work closely with you throughout the process to help ensure your parental rights are protected.
Your Path To Resolving Child Custody And How Our Firm Can Help
Child custody disputes affect every aspect of your family’s life and future. As your legal allies, we take the time to hear your concerns and learn about your child’s needs before creating a plan. Our experienced attorneys will do the heavy lifting, preparing legal documents, filing court papers and speaking with your co-parent’s lawyer.
We prepare you for each step, from mediation sessions to courtroom hearings, making sure you never face this challenge alone. During difficult conversations and tough decisions, our team provides clear guidance while treating you with the respect and dignity your family deserves.

Child Custody FAQs
I want sole custody. What can I do?
True sole custody, meaning sole legal custody and sole physical custody, is very hard to obtain. Texas presumes that it is in the best interest of a child to have liberal access to both parents. As a result, specific circumstances must be present in order for sole custody to be an option, such as the death of a parent, incarceration, physical abuse or substance abuse.
Do I have to go to court?
No. Custody cases are often very contentious and emotional due to what is at stake. But we have encountered many parents who are able to resolve their issues amicably. This is preferred whenever possible, but we are fully capable of resolving your issues in court if necessary. We are skilled litigators with extensive experience resolving high-conflict custody disputes.
How is custody determined?
Child custody cases may be resolved at trial by a judge or jury, or by agreement of the parents. More than ninety percent of the time these disputes are resolved in mediation or by an informal settlement process. In the small fraction of cases that go to trial, a custody determination, whether by a judge or jury, is generally determined by what the fact finder believes is in the best interest of the child.
What if parents cannot agree on custody?
If parents cannot work out custody through talking or mediation, a judge steps in. The judge decides what is best for the child by looking at each parent’s ability to care for them, the stability of their home, their bond with the child and any safety issues. Sometimes, the court picks someone, like a guardian ad litem or custody evaluator, to check things out and suggest what is best.
Do children have a say in custody decisions?
In Texas, kids who are 12 or older can tell the court which parent they would prefer to live with. Their choice does not always decide the case, but the judge might take it seriously, depending on the child’s age, maturity and situation. Still, the judge makes the final call, focusing on what is best for the child.
What happens if a parent makes false allegations?
Making up serious claims, such as abuse or neglect, can hurt a custody case. If the court finds out a parent lied to sway the decision, it could backfire. The parent might lose trust with the judge, face legal trouble or even lose time with their child. Courts handle this carefully, using witnesses and evidence to check the truth.
What are the most common child custody arrangements in Texas?
The most common setup in Texas is joint managing conservatorship. Both parents share decision-making rights for the child. Usually, one parent is the primary caretaker of the child, while the other gets regular visitation time. Sole managing conservatorship, where one parent has most rights, is rare. It is usually only given in cases of abuse, neglect or other serious issues.
Do I need a child custody lawyer in Texas?
You can represent yourself in a custody case, but having a skilled lawyer is a smart move, especially if the case gets complicated or highly contested. A lawyer helps protect your rights, explains your options, makes sure your child’s needs are clear in court, and guides you through the tough legal and emotional issues that need addressing.
Can a parent pick up the child and move?
A relocating parent cannot relocate unless by court order or consent of the other parent. Relocation is a complex area of Texas custody law. For more information, see our relocation page.
Contact An Attorney To Learn More
Laura Dale & Associates can help you find answers to your questions and make sure you understand your custody rights as a parent. Contact our Houston Family Law firm today to arrange a consultation.


